I am not normal, I have never claimed to be.  While most little girls dream of fancy elaborate weddings, just the thought of such an event focused on me gives me extreme anxiety.  I am not a spotlight kind of gal, I am pretty much a wallflower and very very OK with that.  My wedding consisted of four people: my husband, myself, and our two friends.  Anything larger and I would have had a major meltdown.  With that being said I also went with a very non-traditional wedding ring.